Saturday, July 10, 2010

Blessing Day and Fireworks

Last Sunday, July 4th, we had Eliana's blessing. It was a beautiful blessing and a special day for our family. Here's the proud dad who blessed his baby girl.Eliana wore the first of (hopefully) 3 white dresses she'll wear in her lifetime. My grandma got her dress in Colombia. My mom had to fix the little bonnet to make it fit Eliana's tiny head. She also sewed some lace onto her little shoes. They turned out really cute. She was even wearing panty hose. Panty hose!! I plan on taking better pictures of her in her dress soon, but for how, here she is:We set the camera on a timer and tried to get a family shot:The boys refused to hold her for a picture. They were ready for lunch and had no interest in modeling for me. At least they smiled.That evening, we had a dinner at my mom's house with my parents and in-laws. After dinner, we tried to go see the fireworks. I didn't time it well, though, so Eliana was having a fit because she was starving. We ended up parking in a parking lot and letting the boys sit in their little chairs next to the car while I sat in the car and nursed Eliana. My dad snapped this picture of them watching the fireworks.Her first 4th!

Tuesday, June 29, 2010

The First Month

Like I said in my last post, it has been a whirlwind of a month. I feel like I'm finally coming out of the fog and can get back to "normal".

I really can't complain about this first month. I've had so so so much help. I've been spoiled rotten by my mom who has taken the boys off my hands almost everyday for the month of June. My mother-in-law chipped in, too. I sooo appreciate the help they gave me because it allowed me to focus on getting rid of the terrible infection that was making nursing a complete nightmare. My entire life for a few weeks was 100% devoted to breastfeeding issues. It was all I could think about. Now that the pain has been gone for about a week (fingers crossed that it stays that way!!), I can finally focus on everything that I've been neglecting.

With my mom taking the boys out of the house so much, I was able to spend a lot of one on one time with this little doll: I've been in newborn heaven. I love this phase. I love smelling that new baby smell, I love cuddling her and letting her sleep on my chest, I love tiny fingers and toes. I love it all. Except the sleep deprivation. BUT, I also can't complain about that, because she is a faaaantastic sleeper. For the first two weeks or so, she woke up a lot. Some nights it was every hour or two, and some nights she let me have a 3 hour stretch. Other nights, she'd wake up and want to be awake all night. But then in the third week, she started giving us 4 and 5 hour stretches on some nights. Two nights ago, she went 7 hours!! Will this last? I don't know, but I'll enjoy it while I can!
This is her little nose wrinkling cry face.
I could eat her up. She cries way more than the boys ever did. Marcelo talks to her and says, "Just because you're a girl doesn't mean that you have to cry all the time." But in the last few days, she's been much happier, which leads me to believe that the meds I was taking were making her uncomfortable. She was pretty gassy and fussy while I was on them.
I took her to the doctor yesterday. The reason we were there is another story for another day. Let's just say it was an emergency visit, thanks to one of her brothers, and that there was a lot of crying involved. Anyway, they weighed her and she is now 8 pounds. It's pretty funny to me that she is 8 pounds at one month old and her cousin that was born today is right behind her at 7 lbs 13 oz. Hopefully she keeps fattening up because there's nothing cuter than roly poly baby legs!

Sunday, June 27, 2010

7 Years, 1 Month

Today Marcelo and I are celebrating our 7th wedding anniversary. I really hit the jackpot with Marcelo. He is my best friend, the greatest husband I could have hoped for, and such a great dad to our kids. I admire him, I'm proud of him, and I'm QUITE attracted to him. :) I love him. So glad he's mine forever. Besides it being our anniversary, Eliana is one month old today. In keeping with tradition, I took the same picture of her today that I took of each of the boys when they were a month old. Shall we compare?
Here's Diego: Celo:
Eliana:Such teeny little babies. Don't worry. They eventually fatten up.
It's been a whirlwind of a month, but oh so worth it. Life is good. Life is really, really good.

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

Summer Makeover

I'm typing this one handed as my boys take naps and SeƱorita Fussy Pants just wants to be held. I thought I'd get all 3 napping at the same but she had other plans. Psh. She's already the queen of the castle.
That's okay, though, because I have pictures to post!
Marcelo finally convinced me that it was time to part with Celo's luscious locks. I looooved his long shaggy hair. It goes so well with his fiesty attitude. But the poor child has been sweating like crazy in this summer heat, so it was time to say goodbye.

Before: After: Handsome, no? I think Marcelo did a great job.
The boys look more alike now. Oh, and see the shirt Diego's wearing in the picture below? He picked it out on a shopping trip with Tata. He wore it for 2 days, then we wrestled him out of it and washed it and now he's been wearing it for the last two days. He's obsessed with it. I asked him why he likes it so much and he said because it looks like Tato's. My dad has a cut off shirt he wears to the beach and apparently Diego thinks it's awesome. He was like, "It's his summer shirt. Can this be my summer shirt?" What he was really asking is, "Can I wear this shirt every single day all summer?"

Don't be fooled by their seemingly sweet smiles. These boys are nothing but trouble. Or as Celo would say, "Chubble."

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Roughness

A lot has been going on lately. I'll start with Diego news.

We recently had Diego re-tested for all of his allergies. It's been 3 years since his last test and I wanted to know if he was still just as allergic to everything. (He was. His milk allergy is still off the charts.) Also, I had a feeling he was allergic to something we didn't know about. And I was absolutely right. Besides dairy, eggs, and almost every nut known to man, guess what else Diego is now allergic to.

Wheat. Soy. And corn.

AWESOME NEWS. As if it wasn't already hard enough to feed this child. Our pediatrician was like, "He's allergic to everything!! What are you going to feed him? You can't give him anything." He said I was going to have to go to a nutritionist to make a diet plan for him to make sure he's getting everything he needs. We also have to go to an allergy specialist. Diego was listening to my conversation with the doc, and as soon he left, Diego looked at me all sad and confused and said, "Why did the doctor say I can't eat anything? What can I eat?" I was totally crying at this point. I don't want to have to take away foods he loves! He loves bread. He loves pretzels. He loves things I make for him with his "special cheese" (soy cheese). He drinks soymilk every single morning. The look on his face and the way he acted for the rest of the day made me feel like he was just really confused. Like, he thought he knew where he stood with food and now he doesn't know what he's allowed to have.

Diego has always had really bad eczema behind his knees and on his elbows. And there are many times where he randomly throws up and I can't figure out what he ate that made him sick. Now it all makes sense. We took wheat and soy out of his diet for just 2 days and his eczema cleared up almost completely. And certain um, bathroom issues that he's had since birth changed dramatically, too. I really want to talk to a specialist to find out if I need to cut these foods out of his diet completely or if it's okay to give him small amounts. In the short term, it seems like it just affects his skin, but because of the bathroom issues, I want to know how it will affect him in the long term. The thing that bugs me is that they could have told us this 3 years ago! But they forgot to test for those foods the last time.

Anyway, as sad as I feel for my poor kid, I am well aware that there are a lot of things that are MUCH worse. I'm very grateful that despite these issues, Diego is still as healthy as he is.

On that same day at the pediatrician's office, I also found out that Eliana's jaundice was getting worse and that I needed to take her back to the hospital to have her bilirubin levels checked. Also, she's only gaining half the weight she should be gaining. I can tell you exactly why. Because she's a big lazy bum. She's just sooo sleepy and it's impossible to wake her up to eat. She eats for 5 minutes and then falls back asleep. I've tried everything. Tickling her feet, undressing her, even rubbing ice packs on her. Thankfully, in the last few days, she's finally started eating more. Her bilirubin levels are fine, btw.

In other news, (and any male readers might want to skip this next part) I'm having major breastfeeding issues and I'm in a lot of pain. With Celo, I went through 4 months of severe pain that ended in surgery and the removal of a cyst. This time, the same exact pain started up just a week after giving birth. When I start feeding her on one side, I feel like razor blades are trying come out instead of milk. It's great. And then between feedings, I get stabbing/shooting pains throughout my breast. Isn't that peachy? I'm currently in the process of trying everything known to man to get rid of this little issue, and this includes having to paint my baby's mouth purple. That put a damper on all my picture taking. But at least I got a bunch of good ones last week! I'll leave you with one. Many many more to come.

This is her signature sleep pose. She does this all the time. It looks like she's in deep thought. Love her.

Sunday, June 6, 2010

Baby in a Flower Pot

Eliana is 10 days old, so I'm rushing to do her newborn pictures while she's still super sleepy. I've had so much fun taking pictures of her the last few days! Here's one of my favorites. More to come!

Friday, June 4, 2010

Eliana's First Week

Eliana is 8 days old and I'm finally sitting down to post pictures and do a little recap. This week has been pure craziness. My recovery hasn't gone as smoothly as the last two times. I've been in a lot more pain this time. On the second day in the hospital, they noticed that I was getting an infection. The antibiotics they put me on made me sick to my stomach, which...if you've ever had a c-section, you know that's not something you want in your first days of recovery. It was pretty miserable. Most of my nurses were terrible this time. That really ruins the hospital experience. Marcelo was like, "Wow, I guess when it's your 3rd kid they're like, 'you're on your own'." Whether it's your first or your 6th, if it's a c-section, you need your nurses!! I might have to name names at the hospital and let them know about our experience. The nurse that took off my bandage was so rough, she ripped off my skin. A few other things that happened are too personal to put on this blog, but it was just ridiculous how bad the care was this time.

Anyway, negative stuff aside, here's the rest of the recap. This was the picture we took at 5am on our way out the door. (38 weeks) Um, yes, I flat ironed my hair and put on makeup. That's the beauty of a scheduled c-section.Here we are on day two. Our first family picture. I wish I would have taken a picture of my legs on this day. I had to stay in the bed for 24 hours and they were pumping me full of fluids through my IV, so I was swollen all over. But my legs? Holy elephantitis knee. It was pretty funny to look at.Day 3: This face cracks me up. She's my little Asian baby. We took her to our pediatrician, who is from Taiwan, and he said, "Are you sure she's not Asian?"Here's our baby girl about to leave the hospital. At one point, Marcelo was holding her and talking to her. I heard him say, "What are you doing? Are you going to bake me a cake?" I was like, what is he talking about? Ohhhh, her mittens. Got it.
Day 5: First bath. She was the first of my babies who didn't cry during her first bath. She just made angry little faces like this one and looked around like, "What's going on?"
Day 6: Here she is on the blanket my grandma crocheted for her. Diego thought the headband was pretty funny. He says, "I love my baby's spiky hair."I loooove her dainty little nose. And I'm so happy none of my kids got my ears! I have weird, big, elf-like ears. All 3 kids got their daddy's ears.We are crazy about this little girl. I love love love seeing how in love Marcelo is. It's the sweetest thing.
Eliana is, as our pediatrician says, "Jaunjees." (Jaundice.) She is the LAZIEST eater ever. That's been such a frustration to me this week. She eats for 5 minutes, falls asleep, and nothing we do will wake her up. I've even resorted to taking off her clothes and lightly rubbing her back/shoulder/leg with an ice pack. Nothing. She squirms a little and keeps sleeping. Unless it's the middle of the night. In the middle of the night she's happy to be awake for 3 hours straight. I. Am. Tired. But it's so so worth it. Last night I found myself just smiling at her and enjoying her even though it was 2:30 in the morning and she was showing no signs of tiredness. Anyway, we have to go back to the pediatrician in a week to see if her jaundice is better. In the meantime, I'm trying to feed her as often as she'll let me and really working on keeping her awake long enough to get in a full feeding.
The boys have been C-R-A-Z-Y. Yesterday was exceptionally bad. They're both acting like babies, which we expected, but what we didn't expect is the feeling of resentment we've been getting from them. We've tried really hard to give them extra praise and attention, and they've been spending a ton of time doing fun things with Tata, but they're still acting out. Celo keeps yelling at us and has started hitting Diego. Diego has been throwing tantrums like a 2 year old that are really out of character for him. Last night Marcelo and I were at the end of our rope. I said a little prayer asking for inspiration to know what to do and how to help the kids adjust and get them to behave. We had a family meeting and introduced a new sticker chart system. Diego was really into it. Celo....well, Celo's kind of a hopeless cause right now. But we're going to give it a shot and see if it helps.
Today my mom has the boys, so I've taken advantage and have caught up on the blog and on emailing pictures to family members who have been hounding me for them all week. And now I'm going to shut off my phones and sleeeeeeeeeeeep.